The Laws Of Attraction And Homogeneity In The Enactment Of Romantic Relationship And Marital Union, As Well As Fixing It Right With The Ideal Partner

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"The Laws Of Attraction And Homogeneity In The Enactment Of Romantic Relationship And Marital Union, As Well As Fixing It Right With The Ideal Partner". 

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The Laws of Attraction And Homogeneity have strong influence in human affairs. Many of the people we meet or have anything to do with are mostly derived from the kind of personality traits and emotional characters we have cultivated that drew those kind of persons to us. In the experience of Romantic Relationships and Marital Union, any form of unpleasant or dissatisfying outcomes over the kind of partner discovered are mostly connected with what have been attracted by the Individuals; which are based on the dispositions of both persons that have made the relationship to be in the first place. 

A lady may experience series of disappointments overtime in what she thinks as meeting the wrong kind of men. However, the Law of Homogeneity in relation to the enactment of a relationship implies that "like actually attract like". People meet each other and blend with each other based on factors that connect them to each other. Disappointments in the long run meant that there is something wrong with the characteristics that have connected them in the first place. 

Individuals should strive to search in inwards and rationally evaluate their personality and character problems that need to be dealt with. Hence, evaluate necessary changes that need to be made in their attitude to life issues and social characteristics/inclinations before starting a relationship with romantic intentions. 

For every failed romantic relationships and marriage, the cycle can repeat itself in new relationships until the person reflects within on his or her own personal faults and make the necessary corrections or amendments before starting a new romantic relationship. 

If the virtue of a man or woman reflects only lustful appeals such as in dressing or behavior, they attract partners with only lustful intents. Humans who wish for the Ideal must take up the Ideal Form and Virtue. The Idea of a "right partner" is relative to the person's own perspective of the right partner. Hence, who is a right partner to one person may differ from the Idea of such to another person. In a relationship that must stand the test of time, the common language is "Pure Love'. Such Love is not defiled with the carnality of lust for both persons meeting each other to start a romantic relationship. However, an Individual must refrain from Material attachments as an object of attraction to avoid any form of delusion as regards "the Ideal" prospective partner. 

Try as much as possible to deal with personal faults such as harsh temperaments, perversions, attachments to mundane propensities, pride, biased views of other people, self-conceit etc. Cultivate good manners and study what can be truly identified as good manners pleasing and acceptable to another gender. 

Misguided utterances should be avoided at all times. Focus on being decent and cautious in the choice of words or utterances. Learn to understand the importance of decent and rational communication at all times. 

Learn to be the kind of person that would love to have a positive impact on another person, and should allow people to learn from the good examples you reflect in attitude or behavior. Avoid dressing or behavior that provokes absolute lust because that attract only people with just lustful/sexual intentions with no true love feelings. 

Learn to forgive at all times, do not keep grudges in "Romantic Relationship And Marriage". Also allow simple reconciliation and the kind expression of, "I AM SORRY", to be accepted at all times without any problem. Learn to work with the Principle of Pure Conscience in all you do.

Do not show off what you are not or boast about your endowment. In all situations, avoid Pride, and do not show off your material riches in a bid to attract a prospective partner for a romantic relationship. Do not start a romantic relationship on the basis of material riches, for many who have done that encountered problems in such relationships overtime. Seek to make a positive impact at all times in the life of a prospective partner. The process of entering into a romantic relationship and marriage is best enacted with adjustment and adaptation to the peculiarity of the personality traits of the partners. That adaptation and adjustment should be such that can strike harmony in a romantic relationship and marriage. Two persons with their different character or individual dispositions may come together to become Romantic Partners but have to seek ways to connect harmoniously. Mutual understanding and tolerance is very important in that perspective. To some it is not easy, and that is why they fall out overtime. However, when you cultivate the virtues that attracts you to your Idea of a right partner, then love, pure conscience, tolerance and fixing it right protects you from any fall out. 

It is important to realize how to successfully translate a Romantic Relationship into Marriage and make it last a life time. However, the harmony realized is best achieved when there are virtues that make both mutually pleasing and sustainable. It is in a romantic relationship before marriage that a woman displays characteristics that make her marriageable. It should also be known that there are some cases in which the partners change from good and harmonious to bad, when the marital union got enacted from what started as pleasant romantic relationship. It is important to apply rational approach to marriage, as well as learn, adapt and tolerate each other with the mindset of unconditional love in a romantic relationship and marriage.